Hug Vent

So I find it totally unfair when people lash out and you can't lash back. If I were to lash back--believe it's hard not to--then the person would get angry (resulting with two angry people). But the other party--as in not me--would probably hold a grudge against me for lashing out so I can't retaliate. It's absolutely no frickin' fair! Why am I stuck with being the adult here and brushing this thing that's obviously hurtful aside!? I haven't had to do it for a while, but I am sick of getting criticism like this when I try to do good. My intentions are always good! Either good-sprited or good-humored. I want people to be happy or to laugh. Main goals in life (other than God).